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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 28.06.2025 23:53

How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What made you feel disgusted today?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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That's it for today.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How strict are your parents?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Ask yourself:

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Procrastinates a lot.

Does not procrastinate.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

I have been married for 34 years, and I found out my wife lied, and cheated a lot back before we got married. Does she not change, or is it possible she is still a cheater?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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What I need from you?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

I have a "fat pussy" and I'm super self cautions about it. Do guys think it's gross?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What is one small habit that has transformed your life in unexpected ways?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.